CHANGES lead by eXpEcTaTiOns…!!!

I recently came across this quote, 

"If you expect nothing from anybody, you’re never disappointed" -- Sylvia Plath.

Which keeps me wondering does it mean to be all by yourself...? Is it even possible..?

When I look at it with a different point of view, to my understanding the author of the quote mentioned above, is trying to say that one can expect only after believing.... and with belief apprehensions surely come hand in hand. So if anything or everything goes wrong it shall conclude with huge disappointments. And it's always easier to deal with the disappointments created by ourselves, but it's hard to deal with the ones created by others.

When this particular thought is taken to a higher level where its noticed that no matter how stringent or flexible the situation is, it’s usually left to each one of us to decide which way to follow:

- the common path which others choose for us in the name of expectations; or 

- the thoroughfare which we unknowingly bump into which is as unexpected as it could be!!

But then how far such pattern of decision making is going to let you outreach yourself or any situation!!!  

Surely there is a lot to do in between of what is already going on and what needs to be done, it's like the grey area lying in between the bLaCk & the wHiTe and that's where you find a way which is meant for you to take every probable liberty to do what you have to do... !!!

For any of us, we can very conveniently analyze/ gaze at other's situations but when someone is a part of a particular live scenario, it requires a lot of determination and strength to live it up and get through.

A way-out from such situation is to understand 'Change'. Although it’s profoundly said that the only thing which remains constant is 'CHANGE', to very much of our surprise is the irony that we all constantly refrain to accept 'Change'. 

The day we start not just expecting more from ourselves than others but also live upto them, we will learn to accept not just the changes around us but also the ones within us.

And then there shall be hope for a day when 'the change' is created by each one of us with no denial to accept it; rather we start expecting from ourselves and not others..!!!

Randomly unconventional...!!!

Wanting more from today than yesterday is into the nature of survival. As much as I believe in this law of nature… I do follow it myself. And with everyday passing by I try and make sure that I achieve what I wish for.

Yet even after multiple weeks – months - years and decades until now all of it seems like just another ordinary day.

Certainly dreams have no bounds and no ends; though the strange part is, the more you dream the more you want to actualize it in reality. And once you do so it just keeps on adding to the list of never ending list of aspirations.

Ironically all this leads onto the dilemma when the fear of losing grows along with the growing account of the achievements you have.

Which also explains that dreams definitely binds you along with itself.

Time- People- Money- Work and what not seems to fall in different directions altogether and suddenly my life looks like a crash project I’m venturing onto!!!

Well it isn’t hard to believe the fact that in this frenzy dilemma of practicality to find yourself is a difficult task. Though I firmly believe it isn’t an impossible one for myself atleast…

Ohhh well to pursue the so-called terms and conditions set by others wasn’t my cup of tea I guess. Without denying it I shall admit my life wasn’t such a big deal only until I wanted to make a great deal out of it…

Agreed that not all dare enough to change the world but I guess I dared enough to change my world.

Indeed my dream has always been to chase spontaneity with randomness… since ever.

Well to my surprise it was never too late to get started... and quest my abilities to desire!!!! 

Sounds a little filmy though I did 

like to end up saying that to check out the unusual spark around; all you need to do is,

Start with the change within you…

Start it today from this very moment itself… 

Start dreaming to dream and fulfill them as well…

Start living….

Go onto a search for your existence irrespective of all odds to outreach your desires eagerly.... cause it’s never too late to start afresh!!!!

Basically don’t just do all that what has already been done…

“As you don’t always need a plan to Breath… Trust… Let Go and See what Happens!"

After all in the end it’s the journey that matters and not just the destination… Until I find my destination I shall drive onto my impulsive instinct on this journey to make is as randomly unconventional as it can be.

Cause I’m sure I will be wanting more from tomorrow than today.

That firm evenness in-between all the odds...

“What is this life if, full of care,

We have no time to stand and stare.”         

                            By- William Henry Davies

                           Poem- Leisure

With each day passing by, I have observed and experienced the meaning of every word of the statement mentioned above. As its clearly evident that everyone around is in a constant rush to finish or get done with something or the other existing into his or her life.

On the other side of the picture there can be various reasons for such kind of expeditious behavior of one and all; one of the apprehension in my opinion is the sudden realization of the harsh truth, i.e. "to live you have to work, with mere two options accept it or leave it...!!! ".

May be, it sounds a little more than quirky to accept this facet of life but then this is how life is everywhere around this world.

Need of the hour may be different for different individuals though it certainly actualizes into similar results which leads to distraction from ourselves, while we are trying to adjust through the phase of earning our living hood and in search of a better living. The unfairness of it all comes alive when we often tend to forget to visualize our own dreams, following them is out of question.

No matter how stern the above said fact of life is, it sheerly fails to conclude that you can or should ignore your own being in- between all the odd rushes of life...

Cause its not just the situation who choose us but also we, who choose to be a part of it. Rather for better understanding of the situation we did let things happen to you and later find enough space to analyze the change to react to it appropriately.

Moreover, CHANGE is the word that makes all the difference. In addition to that what keeps me amazed is the abrupt truth that despite of knowing that “the only thing, which is constant around us, is change”; and we still happen to fear changes. No matter how much we want to avoid the changes around us, we cannot afford to ignore them. It might be difficult but not impossible to hold onto all the convergences and divergences into varied situations happening to all of us. As a matter of choice why not try and get adapted to the changes around or start creating new changes to let the surroundings suit you. And this will surely help us to seek comfort with change.

As one thing being sure that, “Life will move on...without even asking you. It simply believes in taking you along with its flow and it barely matters if you agree to move on or not.... Life just takes you with itself...!!!!"

From now on try to live for today, live it up all for once without forgetting yourself while searching for a better life; given a thought how incomplete your own life will in your absence itself. Rather for a change take some time out from your daily routine and devote it to yourself. Experience the essence of spontaneity in life as and when it comes to you cause sometimes its good to search for and enjoy the undiscovered evenness that resides within you while you deal with all the odd rushes around….!!!!

J